Get curious
Notice what is happening instead of trying to read a perfect script in your head.
Founder · coach · professional Funstigator
Hey, I’m
Race.
I didn’t get into dating advice because it came naturally to me. I got into it because it didn’t, and I wanted answers I could use.
I still care about what works when you leave the screen.
The work has always been the same: study what matters, test it around actual people, keep what helps, and explain it in a way a guy can remember when the moment arrives.
The useful version of the story
Why this became my life’s work.
I became the guy who wanted to know why one conversation clicked and another died.
Why did one text feel confident while another felt needy? Why did some advice sound brilliant in a book and completely fall apart in real life?
That obsession turned into Attraction Rockstar, years of experiments, a deep catalog of practical programs, coaching, writing, and a strange collection of media adventures.
I am still interested in the same question: what can I give you that you will remember when you need it?
Race’s signature philosophy
Fun over fear.
Dating gets easier when it stops feeling like an audition. Funstigation replaces pressure with curiosity and small experiments.
Try something
Make the experiment small enough that you can use it in real life tonight.
Laugh and learn
A miss can become a story or useful information. Either way, you get better.
It has been a weird ride
The work led to a few strange places.
More than a decade teaching dating and social skills. Coaching. Writing. Radio appearances. A Match.com commercial. A dating TV pilot. Interviews. Even getting made fun of on Saturday Night Live. Fair enough. That is a pretty funny sentence.